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“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable love.”

— Washington Irving

I'm glad we're in this moment

Being with you right now, the way we are at this exact moment....this is what makes everything else worth it. I'm so glad we are who we are and that we can enjoy the good times that we have together because we know how precious they are. You make me incredibly happy and bubbly and it's hard for me to stay angry with you or not want to feel your lips pressing softly and then more forcefully and urgently against my gladly receiving ones. It's hard not to find more and more ways to fall for you. I like it, because this can be fun and terrifyingly exciting and I missed it. I missed the way this feels. I'm glad we both are okay with who we are enough to be like this. It makes me happy, you make me incredibly happy. Thank you for just being you.

Her ghost haunts this TIME

You think you’re special? You think you’re different? You think you’re the only one who has ever walked out of my life claiming that I’m too fucked up for you to deal with never realizing that the reason everything fell apart wasn’t because of me, but because you can’t accept change? Or because you’re the one who’s fucked up becuase of everything and that I have done everything in my power to try and help; to make things easier on and for you, and yet ME, I’M the one whose FUCKED UP? No. I have my faults and I have never lied. I have never told you I was someone different than the person you see before you, so WHY do you think that I am her? Because I’m not, but no matter how many times I try to tell you that she and I are NOT the same person and that I will NOT do what she did to you…you won’t believe me until you forgive her for walking out on you. I have put up with A LOT from you. I have been there for you even when you pushed me away, and I have sat through conversations with you where you say that I’m fucked up and that you don’t know if you can do this anymore and that this relationship is taking a toll on you: and yet you have yet to realize that the reason it is so bad for you is because you haven’t let her go yet. You’re still waiting for her to come back and for things to be like they were. But it’s not going to happen, and even if it does, things will never be like they used to be. I’m so sorry she did what she did to you, and to me, but that has nothing to do with US and yet it has everything to do with us because her ghost still haunts the relationship I now have with you, and it’s ruined it because you let her take control of something that is no longer hers. So, I’m sorry you’re done with me. You meant a lot to me, more than most people these days do. I’m sorry you’re hurting so much and someday I hope that pain goes away.

we all do this at least ONCE

“I think when you are young, you are hoping that this person will be the right one, the one you are going to be in love with forever. But sometimes you want that so much you create something that isn’t really there.”

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Johnny Depp

I wanna be your last first kiss will

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“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life…”

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“So this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I’m still trying to figure out how that could be.”

— The Perks of Being a Wallflower

Home Heals Everything

I thought if I could touch this place or feel it
This brokenness inside me might start healing
Out here it’s like I’m someone else
I thought that maybe I could find myself
If I could just come in I swear I’ll leave
Won’t take nothing but a memory
From the house that built me

The sun also rises

I only keep you around to see what I JUST got to see. It's gone and my breath has finally released. I didn't even know I was holding it in. I'm lighter than air and more free flowing than I have been in a very long time. Thank you for finally getting rid of it. I needed that for piece of mind.

Back from the fresh air of TN and I have never been happier to live in my life, to be who I am and have the friends and family I have. Love sort of does that to you I guess. It lifts you up when you've hit the bottom and it makes everything possible all over again. I needed your breath and your eyes...not to survive but to know what I was missing when you left. Thank you for being exactly who you've always been. I don't know if I could possibly love you anymore than I do right now, but I'm sure we'll see. We have plenty of time just to be free. You are amazing and beautiful and so full of love even after everything you've been through. I love you, but our love is unbinding, it's free and whole and everything it should be, and I'm ecstatic you feel the same. It makes me glow in ways I was unaware were possible again.

Peace and love lover

post secret

So...about post secret this week.....mine is up. Which is FREAKING ME OUT...because I never thought mine would be up....or that Frank would ever actually post MY secret..but SHIT. wow...okay that's all I have to say because it's too early to call and freak out with someone and I'm working. I'm just glad it's out, well one of them.

www.postsecret.com

The funny thing is I never even thought that I was going to have feelings for you. You were just some person, who didn't really mean anything to me, but you came when I needed you and it's frustrating how quickly I became attached to your presence. How when you leave it bothers me because it means that I don't get to see your face anymore. I won't see your eyes as the penetrate almost to my soul. I never thought you'd be as deep as you are either. I just thought you were simply put someone who just smoked a lot. But you're so much more than that, and yet you still don't realize when I need you. You still don't get that sometimes I just need to be near you. Not for any specific purpose but because I literally just need to feel your body next to mine whether we're touching or not; doesn't even matter. And all of this bothers me, because this wasn't supposed to happen. I wasn't supposed to fall for you. It was just supposed to be another fling like everyone else, where I was always in control and you were only after me. And somewhere along the way I gave it all up. I gave up the control and the fling because I just needed to feel loved. I needed to know that someone loved me in this world, and a stranger...that was the best kind of love. And now it's not anymore, now I want more.

It's okay to grow up

"because it was true. and it couldn't be helped anyway..."

- The Last Summer (of you and me)

There's always one person who you love who always becomes that definition. It usually happens retrospectively, but it happens eventually. This is the person who unknowingly sets the template for what you will always love about other people, even if some of their lovable qualities are self- destructive and unreasonable.the person who defines your understanding of love is not inherently different than anyone else, and they're more often just the person you happen to meet the first time you really, really want to love someone. But that person still wins. They win and you lose. Because for the rest of your life, they will control how you feel about everyone else.

-Kelly Ann Urban